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Customs
and traditions of Uzbek people, national dishes and practical
advice for foreign entrepreneurs.
People from Uzbekistan can be chiefly described
as hospitable – Uzbek hospitality is something to be experienced.
You will certainly find yourself as a guest in an Uzbek house.
These guidelines should help you to know what to expect and what
to do :
Lunch or dinner
If you are invited for lunch or dinner, please
accept the invitation and arrive on time.
When visiting a local family it is acceptable
to bring the bottle of good wine or other drink and some kind
of gifts such as chocolates, pens, books, records, videocassettes
etc. which will be enjoyed by the host’s family.
The greeting "ceremony" takes a long
time. Handshaking is usually done by men only and with women if
they are the first to offer their hand. For people who are sitting
further away, a gesture of greeting is made by putting your right
hand on your heart, making a slight bow with your head. During
the greeting "ceremony", questions are asked about host’s
relatives, health, work, home, and just about everything else
concerning him and his household. Admiring the ladies is not public
in Oriental countries.
Traditionally, the shoes are left when entering
the house. If the meal is served in the garden, everyone sits
on a low supa (it looks like a double bed), covered with flat
mattresses called korpas. In that case, you should better to take
off your shoes and sit down as pointed by the host. The further
you sit from the entrance to the room or garden, the more honoured
you are. You may stretch your legs under the table and support
yourself with cushions behind you and under your elbow.
The traditional respect for elderly people and
the superiority of men is obvious. In rural areas, when entertaining
guests, women do not usually share the table with men or take
part in their conversation. They have a separate table. The larger
cities are, however, more liberal. If you are going to visit within
your "partner", she could sit next to you at the men’s
table, and the host will invite his wife to join this table as
well.
First the candies and tea will be served. Then,
not before long, the table will be covered with various hot dishes,
vegetables, fruit and a variety of cool drinks, and sometimes
alcohol.
The most popular Uzbek dish is Pilav. Pilav is
served on a large dish (lagan) placed in the centre of the table.
Usually everybody eats from one dish, since eating from one dish
in considered making people feel intimate, like one big family.
You will not offend anyone, however, if you serve some pilav onto
your plate from the nearest dish. Sometimes pilav is eaten with
the right hand, but eating with a spoon or fork is common.
Be prepared to eat a lot of food! It will be
very tasty, since Uzbek food developed during the time of Great
Silk Road and has combined the best ancient tastes of Asia.
During the meal special round bread, called non,
is served. There are many traditions connected to Uzbek bread.
It is never cut with knife. At the start of the meal, it is broken
into pieces by hand and placed on the table near each place setting.
Try not to place bread upside down (with its flat side up), by
placing it the right way up will earn you the respect of the host
and those around you. Uzbek people consider brad to be holy and
greatly respected.
While at the table you may smoke under host’s
permission or if he starts to smoke first. Smoking is usually
done outside. There is a rule to thank the host far tasty meal,
nice party and kind regards within his guests.
Drinking strong alcoholic drinks is accompanied
by toasts for friendship between people, mutually beneficial co-operation,
the host, and his family’s health. After the spoken toast, you
need to clink your glass or piola (Uzbek teacup) with all the
guests and drink to the end, especially if you are the person
raising the toast. If there are number of guests present, you
may clink your glass only with those around you.
Another feature of Uzbek people is their appreciation
of humour. Most Uzbeks appreciate good joke, they are also enjoy
it if you combine a funny story with your toast. You will be served
tea throughout the meal (coffee is not very popular in Uzbekistan,
though it may be served if you request it). The host fills your
piola (Uzbek teacup) by himself for only one-third. The fewer
is tea, the sooner its cools down. This is also the sign of respect
in hot Asian climate. Always take your piola from the host with
your rights hand, with your left hand on your heart and thank
him with the key word "rakhmat" – "thank you".
Foreigners are usually fascinated by the tea
ceremony. The host first pours the tea into the piola and then,
back into the tea port. It is done by 3 times. The reason is to
stir the tealeaves, making the tea stronger. Then the host fills
each piola, serving every guest with the greatest respect one
at the time.
Be prepared to be offered mountains of food,
midnight will come and go unnoticed around an Uzbek table. Uzbek
people will always accompany you (where possible) to your home
or try and persuade you to spend the night. This is part of Uzbek
hospitality. If you need to leave early, you need to ask the host
giving him a plausible excuse so as not to offend him. Don’t be
in too much hurry to leave the table. Before leaving the table,
the host, is usually the oldest men at the table, will say a prayer
for the success of future co-operation, peace and friendship.
Sometimes a prayer is also said at the beginning of the meal.
If you are the oldest guest at the table, you could offer, or
you might be requested to offer up a prayer yourself.
Morning pilav
Morning pilav is usually prepared for special
celebrations such as weddings, the circumcision of a son or in
respect for someone who has died. Only men attend this early morning
function (osh). It is considered bad manners not to respond to
an invitation. It is not necessary to bring any gifts. Dress neatly,
with cloths that aren’t too bright, it is not necessary to wear
a tie. Morning osh tarts around from 6 am until 7 am. Approximately
200 people are invited, depending on the family and occasion.
Guests take their seats in turn, arrive, sit and while, eat some
pilav and then leave. No strong drink is served and toasting is
not allowed. Smoking at the table is not recommended.
If you live in Uzbekistan for a long time and
make many friends, you will sometimes be expected to visit two
or three families in a day for morning osh! Undoubtedly you and
your image will increase among your Uzbek friends if you attend
these functions.
The Wedding Ceremony
If you are invited to take part in a wedding
ceremony that starts, for example, at 7.00 pm, do not rush to
be there on time. You have the time to buy flowers, prepare a
gift and arrive as late as, say 9.00 pm. Dress is formal. The
bridegroom might be dressed in dark European-style suite, light
shirt and dark tie, and the bride will be dressed in beautiful
long white wedding dress and veil. There will be no less than
200 guests at the wedding. Music will be playing and there will
always be lots of dancing, Uzbek people love to dance! You will
be to a table where you and the other guests at your table will
drink few glasses of Champaign or other drinks to the health and
happiness of the newlyweds. The bride and the groom arrive later.
You can present your flowers and gift to the couple when they
arrived.
Every time the young couple is congratulated,
they are expected to stand up. If you are asked to congratulate
them, you will have to make a short speech using the microphone.
It is also interesting for other guests if you tell them that
you are a foreigner and that this is your first wedding party.
Tell them of your impressions at the end, congratulate them and
give them your good wishes. Remember that married couples do not
kiss each other in public.
You are not expected to stay until the end. It is
possible to leave at any time, just excuse yourself from the guests
at your table, thank the hosts and leave. |